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Perfect Man for Marriage

Seeking a Perfect Man for Marriage: A Reality Check on Expectations

Searching for the Perfect Man for Marriage: What Should Be Your Focus? My Search for the Ideal Partner I’ve been looking for someone who is the complete package—a tall man with good looks, a solid financial background, a graduate-level education or higher, and someone who is both kind and committed. But as time goes by,

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Shaping Your Future

Shaping Your Future: Habits and Relationships That Matter

Have you ever thought about how your habits, relationships, and choices are shaping your future? Spoilers ahead! Let’s dive in: How Your Choices Today Are Shaping Your Future 🔮 Want to Spoil Your Future? Just look at those four or five friends you’re constantly in contact with. Your future is likely going to look exactly like

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Dealing with Narcissists

Dealing with Narcissists: Strategies to Protect Yourself

Dealing with narcissists requires a lot of caution. These individuals are masters of manipulation, often twisting realities to suit their narrative, and making you question your sense of self. From personal experience, I’ve had periods in my life where I was forced to deal with narcissists. Reflecting on those times brings up frustrating and disheartening

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Managing Perfectionism

Managing Perfectionism: 10 Tips to Ease Self-Imposed Pressure

Perfectionism can feel like living as “a hundred people in one,” constantly juggling multiple expectations and demands on yourself. As a perfectionist, the standards you hold yourself to are often much higher than those of the average person, and this can lead to immense pressure. For instance: These impossible standards result in stress, anxiety, and

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Raising Emotionally Healthy Children

Raising Emotionally Healthy Children: 7 Key Parenting Tips

As a psychologist, I often share advice with parents on how to raise emotionally healthy and confident children. Here are a few key tips that can make a significant difference in your child’s well-being. Essential Tips for Raising Emotionally Healthy Children 1. Don’t force them to eat foods they dislike. Just like you wouldn’t eat

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Overthinking

Overthinking: 14 Evidence-Based Ways to Find Mental Peace

 If you struggle with overthinking (also known as overthink), you know how exhausting it can be to quiet a noisy brain. In this post, I’ll share 14 evidence-based strategies to help you manage overthinking and find some mental peace. Let’s dive in! Effective Strategies to Manage Overthinking 1. Track Your Overthinking Triggers Notice when, where, and under what circumstances

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Setting Boundaries, Professional Boundaries

Setting Boundaries: Essential Guide for Professional Success

Setting Boundaries is crucial in any human relationship, and without them, the relationship is likely to fail. To protect the relationships that matter most to you, it’s essential to establish clear boundaries and guard them as you would your most valuable assets. One of the areas where setting boundaries is especially important is in the

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